AINT LIFE FUNNY! Time heals.

My dear gals and guys!! Life is what we make of it. Our choices are crucial to our happiness! Ughhh, remember the days, when you would prefer not to be in the same room with the EX, yeah I do too.

Let me give some insight as to how we grow

Amicable Divorce- Why cant we just do it !

To those of you who were sensible enough to have an amicable divorce hats off to you!! Well done👏.

This pic really sums up the foolish mistake we make due to lack of maturity!

Happiness

Finding happiness after a divorce was much easier than I thought.

As a matter of fact I didn't have to go find happiness. I just became much happier. I did not have anyone trying to control me anymore.

I did things that I enjoyed doing.

Life

No relationship is ever a waste of time.

If it didn't bring you what you want, it thought you what you don't want.

Always remember difficult roads often lead to beautiful destination!!!

Joint Custody

Adjusting to joint custody was indeed a tough time in the onset. I missed my then little girls tremendously.

My three daughters spent close to equal time with both myself and their father.

The good life

We all know divorce to be tough, ugly and acrimonious, it pretty much sucks.

However, I bet you could find many great things that emerged from your divorce if you look closely enough. I know I can.

Finding Love Again

After divorce, there is a natural instinct of fear that kicks in. The fear of never finding that companionship or the fear of being alone.

Reducing this fear and anxiety is to live in the moment.

Take time

Right after divorce, mant people try to numb the pain by quickly getting involved with someone else.

That however, is just a bandaid over a sore that needs time to heal.

Slow down and don't worry about getting into anothe relationship right away:

Take the time to get to know who you are again.

Divorce

Divorce is always GOOD NEWS!

I know that sounds weird, but its true because NO GOOD MARRIAGE  has ever ENDED  in DIVORCE!!

That does not happen, and if it did ; that would be SAD!!!

Take responsibility

Suffering for your kids sake is like trying to hurt someone happy.

Take responsibility for your own happiness as a gift to your children and yourself.